Special Gift: | Knowing "what's so" |
Self-Definition: | "I'm perceptive." |
Shadow Issue: | Miserliness |
Rejected Element: | Meaninglessness |
Addiction: | Knowledge |
Strength Needed: | Detachment |
Defense Mechanism: | Isolation (compartmentalization) |
Psychological Disturbance: | Avoidant personality |
Talk Style: | Dissertations |
Preoccupations Include: | Concern with privacy; withdrawal; social/antisocial dichotomy. Restricting and minimizing personal needs as a way of non-involvement. Need to control unpredictable feelings and reactions. Sectioning off emotionally charged experiences into predetermined time units; setting boundaries. Interest in using analytical knowledge as a substitute for emotional experience. Confusion between spiritual non-attachment and personal withdrawal from emotional pain. "Outside observer" point of view leading some to feel isolated from the events of one's own life and others to a point of view detached from the biases of personal fear or desire. |
Focus: | Personal emphasis on "home as castle." Couple emphasis on confidence. Community emphasis on totems, identifying with "those who know." |
Life Task: | Gaining knowledge of life by stepping into action from being an observer, taking in exactly what is needed and letting the rest go. |
Thursday, December 02, 2010
The Five: Knowledge & Withdrawal
My home base. I have worked hard and found myself in different situations and relationships over the years that have balanced me out a bit --both my training and work as a psychotherapist and my connections to lovers and friends-- but I recognize these deep-seated tendencies in me. I might be a recovering Five, but I recognize myself here.
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