She linked with approval to a Facebook post whose uplifting cheerleader message was, "You can do this because you are badass."
And here is the profile pic for the badass in question:
Scares the shit outta me, that's for sure!
And to make up to my readers for inflicting this testostrone-erasing picture on you, an offering in atonement:
Porn actor Jeff Allen. Back in the late 90's-early 00's he was, IMHO, as close to perfect as a man could get.
Now balance has been restored to The Force.